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Talking dirty during sex

Talking during sex can be very arousing. It is a time for us to share a part of ourselves that we usually keep hidden out of view. We moan, we groan. We shout out loud, “who’s your daddy?” These expressions can be about pure pleasure or they can be a way for us to express some of the darker sexual issues we face. I say darker because there is a whole lot of repression related to sex and we keep a great deal bottle up within us. We either consciously repress our thoughts and keep sex hidden because it isn’t always appropriate to discuss sexual issues or turn-ons (like at work or with our family members), or we do it subconsciously because we have a great deal of societal pressure that encourages us to keep our sexual desires hidden and shrouded in shame. Talking dirty during sex acts ends up becoming an outlet for these repressed parts of ourselves. sexy mouth

Many people refrain from swearing in their every day lives. During sex we put our guard down and get to use all those “bad” words. Fuck! Damn! Cunt! Cock! Pussy! Oh Sweet Jesus! All sorts of forbidden words coming spewing out.

Talking dirty varies from person to person. Some people are vocal. Some people are not. For some it depends on the situation or the person they are with. I know I can be very vocal at times and almost silent at others. When I am close to having an orgasm I sometimes focus so hard on what I am feeling that barely a breath leaves my lips. Other times I want to scream for joy and do just that.

If it is your turn on to hear some one talk dirty during sex, but your partner is not into it, what can you do? It all depends on why thetalking dirtyy are not interested. Some people are just not big talkers in general. They do not express themselves with words. You have to go by their body language or you have to just ask them straight out to know what they are thinking or feeling. With folks like this you might want to ask them how they are feeling, say, when you go down on them. In between the licks and sucks, of course. Ask them to moan if it feels good. Moaning is a good step towards talking dirty and to having better sex. I read that a man moaning lets a woman know she is doing a good job performing oral sex on him and consequently she will do it for longer when he gives her oral cues. I am pretty darn sure that this works both ways. Using words of encouragement like ”oh that feels good”, “yeah baby” or even “mmmmmmmm” can help you get what you want in bed.

However, many people are too shy to talk dirty during sex. Just like people can feel shy or nervous when it comes to public speaking, the same thing can occur in bed. It can be a great big stage for you and you are afraid to open your mouth. In this case, pushing or demanding that they speak will get you nowhere. It will likely make things worse. I think you might have to be happy with what you get. Showing pleasure and even giving praise when they do try something certainly cannot hurt. issues we face. I say darker because there is a whole lot of repression related to sex and we keep a great deal bottle up within us. We either consciously repress our thoughts and keep sex hidden because it isn’t always appropriate to discuss sexual issues or turn-ons (like at work or with our family members), or we do it subconsciously because we have a great deal of societal pressure that encourages us to keep our sexual desires hidden and shrouded in shame. Talking dirty during sex acts ends up becoming an outlet for these repressed parts of ourselves.

The main thing to remember though is that being vocal yourself helps your partner be vocal right back at you. Dirty talk can be such a good thing when it is a two way street.

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3 Responses to “Talking dirty during sex”

  • HornyWife:

    I love my husband talking dirty to me while having sex, It turns me on so much when he tells me what he and his mates want to do to me when Im blind folded .. Even though I know it may never happen just the thought of it drives me wild

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  • Jake:

    My wife always talks dirty when Im fucking her! She pretends Im another man and even says his name

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  • JuliaS24/7:

    Mmmmmmmmm I love to talk dirty to my husband on the phone while he is at work. He has a real struggle to hold it down in his pants lol especially when his workmates are around. I like the build up before he comes home to me knowing what he will be get when he walks through the front door.

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